A few weeks ago, while frequenting the classy establishment that is the Red Lobster, I sat by the lobster tank awaiting my shrimp platter.
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A man my age, Black, under thirty, with pants on the ground. Well, they were slightly above the ground but not by much. My mom, the elderly Black people in the lobby, and I gave him 'the look.'
One of the elderly patrons told him to pull up his pants and cover his drawers.
He apologized and I went off for my Cheddar Bay Biscuits.
Not to sound like an old twenty-something but times have changed. I know it was Red Lobster but when I was growing up, we knew better than to expose our underpants in public. And if that even happened, a parent, grandparent, or stranger would remind us and demand that we get it together. (I even had a teacher who would make the boys wear hot pink string in lieu of belts if they wore their pants below their waists. It worked.)
Unfortunately, the grandparents who grew up during the 30s and 40s won't be there to tell Millennials to "pull 'em up."
What's going to happen then?
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The Take Charge Foundation's 'Pull 'Em Up' campaign seeks to encourage young men to pull up their pants and take pride in their appearance. Based in Prince George's County, Maryland, it is holding a month-long belt drive with a goal of collecting 500 by November so that it can pass them out to high school students in the county schools.
Executive Director Jerrod Mustaf says, "We're trying to change the culture, step by step. The first step is to get the attention of young people and their parents. We're not going to accept or tolerate young men with their pants sagging. It's disrespectful, and they're not going to be hired for any jobs. We want to modify the culture of young people who believe it's cool to wear sagging pants."
But this program is more than just a belt donation project.
The Foundation serves young people adjudicated through the Prince George's County court system. Most youth in the program are between age 14 and 18. It offers mentoring, life-skills, job readiness, parenting enhancement, crisis intervention, and gang prevention classes.
Legislators in some states have taken efforts to criminalize sagging pants, including those in Alabama, Indiana, Florida, and Tennessee. Penalties that range from fines and jail time up to 6 months are on the books. And yes, they have enforced these policies.
A little ridiculous if you ask us. We're sure these legislators have no better things to do except to legislate low-slung pants. Programs like 'Pull 'Em Up' actually seek to teach and reform instead of criminalize. Maybe this is asking too much of legislators who are elected by being "tough on crime" but we expect better.
More here.
